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High Hope Can Serve a Harmful Goal

Determination and strategic thinking do not guarantee a safe destination; practitioners must examine the goal as well as the motivation behind it.

What this resource explains

A person can show strong agency, resourcefulness, and persistence while pursuing a goal that increases harm. That is still goal-directed behavior, but the destination and available pathways are dangerous.

The practical move is not to dismiss the person's motivation. It is to understand what the harmful goal is providing—status, safety, income, belonging, control, or recognition—and help build another goal that can meet the underlying need.

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A young person is persistent and resourceful in an activity that puts them at risk.
A useful move
Respect the capability, identify what the current goal supplies, and co-design a safer goal with a credible route to the same underlying need.
What this does not prove
Do not equate determination with safety or decide another person's goal without listening to them.

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